Smart Ways To Deal With Mean Comments 2!!!

We all know how mean people can be and it's just so not nice. So I thought why not learn how to deal with them. Instead of clapping back at them why don't we understand why that person is so sad. They're sharing their hate means they've been hated by someone. Sometimes when we see things from another point of view, we see that it's the chaos that has created the illusion over a false truth.

We blame mean people for the mean-ness but in reality, all of us are mean to someone, with or without intending to be so. We sometimes say things we don't mean, or things we don't want to, just because of some excuse. But we don't think how it may have a wrong effect on someone else.

All of us were raised to be good people, but we face situations and things that change us. Let's assume a very nice person has faced a lot of mean people in their life. They will keep being nice to them for the next 10 times but the 11th time, they can't keep doing so. They are taught to be mean that way, they have to be so. So a mean person is actually sometimes a person who was nice to mean people for too long.

1) Be kind to them

Being kind does not cost a second to you, but one second of your kindness may come to make a big difference for someone. You never know what someone is going through. I read a story earlier that a man driving a car was getting mad at the person in front of him until he saw the sign that the driver was a handicapped person and suddenly all of his anger was replaced with sympathy. Such is life, you don't know who the driver is and what problem he must be facing. So sometimes being nice mean people can help you and them too.

2) Ask them the reason for their anger

Sometimes people are mean because they can't get to be angry. Communicate with them. Tell them that they will be okay. Think how much difference it will make to them? And even to you.

3) Tell them they're being mean

Have you ever gotten angry at everyone without any particular reason? If yes, you know that sometimes when things are not going the way you wanted them to be, you have sudden outbursts of anger. Ask that person their reason for anger, this will remind them that they were being angry even though they didn't intend to do so. 

Be the person who makes a difference in someone else's life. Be the person you need other's to be. The only way you will get a better world, is if you start being a better version of yourself...

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